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        <p>Matt wants a three-way. </p>
<p>I think me and Rodney are fighting. </p>
<p>This semester is still on auto-pilot. </p>
<p>And that&#39;s all that&#39;s really going on. </p>
<p>I&#39;m still playing catchup every week. It&#39;s like a game of scholastic russian roulette, and I keep getting lucky. I guess that&#39;s what makes it so addictive. The drama of not knowing if I&#39;m going to make it or not, if everythign is REALLY going to be alright this time. --I stole part of that from <u>He&#39;s Just Not That Into You</u>&#160; and it&#39;s the truth. I do love the drama. </p>
<p>In other news, I think that my relationship is dead. I called Matt alot yetsterday. He called me back once and we talked for 9 minutes, enough time for me to tell him that I didn&#39;t want to have a threesome (his sick and twisted way of ending my one year of celebacy) and I think it really depressed him or something. I told him that all I wanted was him. He said he would call me back but he never did, I called five or six times later that night and thrice today. This is usually the beginning of the end. Or the end of the end, I can never tell because they usually end with me being late on the upkeep. But I&#39;m not deluded about this one. I just wanted to keep it going until we could meet for real, and maybe then by some magical act, it would be good and everything would be kept together. But I doubt that it&#39;s going to happen. Atleast I didn&#39;t give away too much with this one. I think I&#39;m getting better at having bad relationships. </p>
<p>My school work is decent, not great, not horrendous, just decent. Decent enough to pass. If I don&#39;t pass or if I get D&#39;s then I think I will have some kind of stroke. It would be just too embarassing and too horrible. But I don&#39;t know, I doub that I shall have any spectacular grades in my English courses, or in my Philosophy class, or in my Spanish class. I&#39;m expecting this will be a sucky semester. I need to care more but I can&#39;t seem to get it up for my school work. Its just something I do without caring. Something that doesn&#39;t really matter. Etc. But maybe next semester things will look up and I will have spectacular grades because I will be going to law school in two years. And if not then I will find a way to fix it and make everything perfect, some more summer classes and some hard work never hurt anyone. But I would have to stay an extra year to retake the English courses I goofed. . . . Or maybe not, who knows, maybe I&#39;ll pull more B&#39;s then C&#39;s and if I work my hardest to make the next three semesters spectacular, I should be good and ready for Boston.&#160; Or maybe I could just move there anyway, forsake law school and just become some kind of Bostonian.</p>
<p>I&#39;ve&#160;decided that since my sex life hasn&#39;t taken off, well, not in a positive light anyway, I&#39;ve decided that all I can do is hope that I live long enough, and make enough money so that I can pay&#160;for my funeral in advance and have my ashes scattered somewhere lovely. That way I don&#39;t end up&#160;in some kind of mass burial. This way if I have noone to mourn me, no one to make the final arrangements,&#160;I don&#39;t have to worry about&#160;some tragic post-mortem&#160;demise.&#160;So I&#39;m&#160;going to&#160;pre-pay for my funeral, get into a Boston Law School, get my grades up and take&#160;school more seriously. </p>
<p>Not in that order of course. </p>
<p>And as for&#160;men and love . . . maybe I should just leave it alone for a while,&#160;maybe just become more like my boyfriend. Sex sex&#160;sex, even though that&#39;s not my style, there&#39;s something to be said about someone who owns their sexuality. That something is just usually &quot;whore&quot; </p>
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<p><br />via Center for American Progress<br /><a href="http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/2009/09/census_women.html">Census Shows Most Poor Adults Are Women, Particularly &quot;Women on Their Own&quot;</a></p><p>Elderly, unmarried women—many of whom are widows or divorced—are particularly susceptible to poverty, particularly as retirement funds dwindle in the recession.</p><p>By Liz Weiss&#160; | September 10, 2009</p><blockquote><p>New data released today by the Census Bureau shows a statistically significant increase in the national poverty rate in 2008. Most adults (18 and over) in poverty are women; 59 percent of adults in poverty are women; and 13 percent of all adult women are in poverty. Three-quarters of these women are women on their own—widowed, divorced, separated, or never married—despite being less than half (47 percent) of the population of adult women. These unmarried women have appreciably higher poverty rates than married women—20.8 percent versus 6.2 percent. Yet unmarried women live in a variety of situations—they may be living with partners, they may be mothers, they may be elderly—and each group has unique circumstances and needs. Indeed, poverty rates vary greatly for women by family status, age, and race.</p><p>In 2008, 39.8 million people—13.2 percent of Americans—were in poverty, a statistically significant increase from 2007 (12.5 percent), and a marked increase since 2000 when poverty was at 11.3 percent—its lowest level in a generation. Unfortunately, we know that the poverty picture has worsened in 2009, and these new numbers reflect only the first part of the current economic downturn. Unemployment in August 2009 was at 9.7 percent nationwide and nearly 12 percent for unmarried women (seasonally unadjusted). What’s more, long-term unemployment has grown considerably and food stamp participation increased by more than 20 percent between June 2008 and June 2009.</p><p>Women are more likely even in better economic times to face poverty than men, and unmarried women have higher poverty rates than married women. Yet the marital disparity has worsened since early in the decade. The poverty rate of unmarried women was 13.4 percentage points higher than married women in 2000, but it was 14.6 percentage points higher in 2008. The risk of poverty for women of color is even greater, especially for those who are unmarried. Thirty percent of unmarried black women and 29.5 percent of unmarried Hispanic women—of any race—were poor in 2008, compared with 18.5 percent of unmarried white women.</p></blockquote> <div><br /></div>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Have intense orgasm by Using Gigi Vibrator</title>   
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        <title>True Sex Confessions: I tied him up, climbed on and shagged him silly</title>   
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        <published>2009-11-04T09:20:14Z</published>
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 <div><p>“I tied him up, climbed on and shagged him silly” I booked a hotel
room and asked my man to meet me in the bar after he finished work. I
got there before him, <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products/lingerie-collection.htm">dressed</a> in the works: <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products/ivory-sheer-thigh-hi-wlace-top.htmlhttp://www.madamerouge.com.au/products/ivory-sheer-thigh-hi-wlace-top.html">stockings</a>, red knickers and <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products/ballet-ruffle-bra-and-g-brief-set-web-only-special.html">bra</a>, a <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products?search_text=satin&amp;Submit.x=0&amp;Submit.y=0">satin dress </a>and
a scarf around my neck. A dark wig finished the outfit off and I went
to sit at the bar. He came into the bar and didn’t recognize me at
first but when I spoke to the barman he heard me and got the hint.</p>
<p>We chatted like strangers and had a few drinks, before I offered him
a nightcap in my room. Once we were up there, I took over, tied him to
the bed, climbed on top and tried to shag him silly. But it didn’t work
as he persuaded me to let him loose. Big mistake! I ended up tied up
with my own <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products/rebel-school-girl-adult-costume-with-matching-lingerie.html">stockings</a>
and gagged with my scarf. The next two hours I was licked and fucked
like never before. The change really worked for both of us… Anon</p>
<p>Source for further reading:</p>
<p>Anon <a href="http://www.fhm.com/girls/confessions/i-tied-him-up-climbed-on-and-shagged-him-silly-20081204">True Confessions</a> Nov. 4, 2009</p>
<p>Taylor, Llyn <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/">Madame Rouge Australia</a> Nov 4, 2009</p></div>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>How To Rev Up Your Sex Drive With Sensate Focus Techniques</title>   
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<p>Rediscover the joy of sex with this five-step program developed by renowned sex therapists.</p>



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<h3>You Will Need</h3>
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<ul><li>A cooperative partner</li><li>Self-discipline</li><li><a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products?search_text=candles&amp;Submit.x=0&amp;Submit.y=0">Candles (optional)</a></li><li>Music (optional)</li><li><a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products/boudoir-potions-lubricants.htm">Creams, lotions, and oils  (optional)</a></li></ul>
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<h4>Step 1: Avoid sex</h4>
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<p>Commit to not having intercourse until you get to the end of this
therapeutic process. Even if lack of desire is your biggest problem,
you may be surprised at how much you’ll crave sex once you’re forbidden
to have it.</p>
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<p>Both parties should give up pornography as well during the no-sex period.</p>
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<h4>Step 2: Get touchy feely</h4>
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<p>For your first session, remain fully clothed as you each take a
10-minute turn feeling the other person all over. Try to recreate the
exciting groping of your adolescence. Don’t speak during this exercise;
focus solely on sensation, both when you touch your partner and when
you’re being touched.</p>
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<p>Create a more intimate space with <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products/boudoir-potions-lubricants_scarlet-massage-candles.htm">candles</a> and soft music.</p>
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<h4>Step 3: Repeat</h4>
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<p>Wait a few days, and then repeat the exercise. This time, do it in the nude, but avoid touching breasts, anuses, and genitals.</p>
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<h4>Step 4: Give some signals</h4>
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<p>Wait a few more days, and then repeat the nude touching exercise,
this time with no area off-limits. Again, do not speak. But if your
partner touches you in a pleasurable way, let them know by squeezing
their hand.</p>
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<p>Feel free to use <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products/boudoir-potions-lubricants_massage-oils.htm">creams, lotions, and oils</a> in your foreplay.</p>
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<h4>Step 5: Begin mutual touching</h4>
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<p>After another few days with no physical contact, move on to stage four — <em>mutual</em>
nude touching. In other words, the turn-taking is over and you can now
do anything you want — short of oral sex and intercourse.</p>
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<h4>Step 6: Have no-pressure sex</h4>
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<p>Forgo physical contact for another few days, and then engage in
“nondemand intercourse” which means intercourse without the expectation
of achieving orgasm. In fact, if one of you is about to climax, slow
down the action. By this time, you both hopefully are panting for
unrestricted sexual activity, which you can now enjoy.</p>
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<h4>Step 7: Repeat as needed</h4>
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<p>Repeat this process whenever your sex life needs a jolt.</p>
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<p>The average American couple has sex about 66 times a year.</p>
<p>Source for further reading:</p>
<p>Howcast <a href="http://www.howcast.com/videos/115320-How-To-Rev-Up-Your-Sex-Drive-With-Sensate-Focus-Techniques">How To Rev Up Your Sex Drive With Sensate Focus Techniques</a> Nov.3, 2009</p>
<p>Taylor, Llyn <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/">Madame Rouge Australia</a> Nov.3, 2009</p>
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        <title>True Sex Confessions: I proceeded to lick him from head to toe</title>   
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 <div><br /><h2>“I proceeded to lick him from head to toe”</h2> <p>I was seeing
this guy who had only ever slept with one woman before me – he’d had a
girlfriend for eight years, so getting him into my bed was a mission.
His ex must’ve been pretty straight in the sack, as when I whipped out
my <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products/toy-chest-for-women.htm">box of toys</a>
for the first time, he almost spunked his load there and then. Anyway,
I liked him and thought it’d be fun teaching him a thing or two. After
we’d been seeing each other for a few weeks, I finally got him in bed
and told him I had a surprise for him.</p> <p>I tied him to my <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products?search_text=stocking&amp;Submit.x=0&amp;Submit.y=0">headboard with my stockings</a>, <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products?search_text=blindfold&amp;Submit.x=0&amp;Submit.y=0">blindfolded</a>
him, and proceeded to lick him from head to toe spending plenty of time
on his knob. My hands ran all over his body and within half a second he
came like the falls. I sucked it all down hungrily before freeing him
from the bed and removing his <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/products?search_text=blindfold&amp;Submit.x=0&amp;Submit.y=0">blindfold</a>.
I could see the lad was in a bit of state but I fell asleep soon after.
The next morning we woke up and he seemed more nervous than ever.
Eventually he plucked up the courage and said I was too experienced for
him and that he couldn’t go out with me. When he left my house I fell
about in fits of giggles.</p> <p><strong>Posted:</strong> RHIANA, PORTSMOUTH</p> <p>Source for further reading</p> <p>Rhiana, <a href="http://www.fhm.com/girls/confessions/i-proceeded-to-lick-him-from-head-to-toe-20081207">True Confessions</a> Nov 2, 2009</p> <p>Taylor, Llyn <a href="http://madamerouge.com.au/">Madame Rouge Australia</a> Nov 2, 2009</p><br /></div>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <published>2009-11-01T05:18:38Z</published>
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<p><br /></p><p>Are you a good kisser? Anyone can be, with the right technique.</p>



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<h3>You Will Need</h3>
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<ul><li>A partner you’re passionate about</li><li>And a comfortable space, such as a couch</li></ul>
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<h4>Step 1: Clean your mouth</h4>
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<p>Brush your teeth, floss and use mouthwash. Bad breath is the ruination of kissing. At the very least, have a mint.</p>
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<h4>Step 2: Sit w/ partner in private</h4>
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<p>Sit with your partner, preferably in private. Public displays of
affection may be fun for you, but they make everyone else uncomfortable.</p>
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<h4>Step 3: Relax</h4>
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<p>Relax and clear your mind. Focus only on the person with you.</p>
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<p>Angle your face to avoid crunching noses.</p>
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<h4>Step 4: Touch lips</h4>
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<p>Lean into the person until your lips touch.</p>
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<h4>Step 5: Be soft &amp; gentle</h4>
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<p>Keep lip contact soft and gentle in the beginning.</p>
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<h4>Step 6: Experiment</h4>
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<p>Experiment with different movements and techniques. For instance,
gently suck on your partner’s lower lip, or caress his lips lightly
with your tongue.</p>
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<h4>Step 7: Use your tongue</h4>
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<p>Open your mouth enough to slowly slide your tongue into your
partner’s mouth. If you get an enthusiastic response, start exploring
the inside of each other’s mouth. Just remember to keep it slow and
soft, not darting or invasive.</p>
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<p>Don’t forget to breathe through your nose.  Nothing ruins a good make-out like falling unconscious.</p>
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<h4>Step 8: Come up for air</h4>
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<p>As the make-out session intensifies, come up for air by kissing your
partner’s face, ears, and neck, even giving them the occasional soft
nip or gently tugging on their hair in the heat of the moment.</p>
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<p>Truly passionate kissing has a sense of urgency, as if you’ve been waiting for this moment for so long that you can’t hold back.</p>
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<h4>Step 9: Use your hands</h4>
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<p>Use your hands: kissing is made complete by strokes and caresses. Try holding the person’s face as you kiss.</p>
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<h4>Step 10: Practice</h4>
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<p>Practice makes perfect.</p>
<p>Source for further reading:</p>
<p>Howcast <a href="http://www.howcast.com/videos/1572-How-To-Kiss-With-Passion">How to kiss with passion</a> Nov 1, 2009</p>
<p>Taylor, Llyn <a href="http://www.madamerouge.com.au/">Madame Rouge Australia</a> Nov 1, 2009</p>
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 <div>Whether you want to spare an inept partner’s feelings or you just
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<p>* Acting skills<br />
* Good timing</p>
<p>Step 1: Moan gently</p>
<p>Start off by moaning gently a few times. Keep your eyes half-open and your face neutral.</p>
<p>Step 2: Offer encouragement</p>
<p>As you moan, offer a few words of encouragement, like a breathless, “yes, yes” or “that feels so good.”</p>
<p>Step 3: Kick it up</p>
<p>Gradually get louder. Moan more aggressively. Breathe harder and faster.</p>
<p>The key word is “gradually.” If you skip from content murmuring to
screams of sexual ecstasy, your performance won’t just be fake—it’ll be
downright insulting.</p>
<p>Step 4: Make faces</p>
<p>As you progress, make more intense faces—bite your lip, open your mouth, furrow your brow, grit your teeth.</p>
<p>Step 5: Move around</p>
<p>Make sure you move around—this is a full-body performance.
“Involuntarily” jerking your legs is a nice touch. Just don’t make it
look you’re having an epileptic fit.</p>
<p>Make sure you have time to fake your orgasm before your partner
climaxes—especially since the kind of guy you need to fake it with is
probably also “fast on the draw.”</p>
<p>Step 6: Announce it</p>
<p>Announce your imminent bliss with a breathless, “Oh God, I’m almost there!”</p>
<p>Step 7: Go for it</p>
<p>Squeeze your partner extra-tightly and pretend you’ve lost all
ability to control yourself—scream, thrash around, go intensely quiet,
draw in quick, short breaths—whatever you do when you’re actually
having an orgasm.</p>
<p>Step 8: Include him</p>
<p>While you fake it, scream out that you want him to orgasm, too. Guys like that.</p>
<p>Step 9: Compliment incoherently</p>
<p>When you’re done, immediately compliment his lovemaking skills with gasping incoherence, like: “That was… you… I… uh… amazing.”</p>
<p>Step 10: Linger</p>
<p>Linger afterward. The best actors stay in character even when the camera isn’t rolling.</p>
<p>According to a survey of 15,000 sexually active adults, 72% of women and 24% of men have faked an orgasm.</p>
<p>Source for further reading:<br />
Howcast <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oSvufO2953E">How to Fake An Orgasm</a> Oct 31, 2009</p><p>Taylor,Llyn <a href="http://madamerouge.com.au">Madame Rouge Australia</a> Oct. 31,2009<br /></p></div>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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