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Sex should be sweaty, steamy and sticky. It should have elements of passion and intensity. It should be a moment of untamed frenzy coupled with unbridled excitement and intimacy…

Sound like a familiar fantasy? While sex is great when it turns into the kind of unbridled passion usually reserved for movies and daytime soap operas, it’s not always realistic, nor is it always possible, to achieve. There is, however, one element that’s a little more feasible to bring into your lovemaking — fun.

I’m not just talking about a role-playing, ear-nibbling, dirty-talking, laugh-out-loud role in the hay — I’m talking about the kind of sex that gives you a feeling of intimacy with just the right touch of playfulness. Exactly how is this achieved, you ask? The answer is all in the positioning, my friend.

Here are a few sex positions that’ll help you incorporate the fun factor into your sex life.  For more tips and love guides we have exciting books for you like  Lover’s Weekender Guide, The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys and Tickle His Pickle.

Moreover, we also have fun and sexy  lingeries,  dress up costumes, sex toys like Lelo Gigi and accessories like Strip Tease Delux Kit that comes with iamante nipple pasties, satin garter, feather boa, Burlesque CD and bills of desire which your loved one can use when he likes what he sees.

revamping the regulars

When fatigue sets in or you’re just not feeling that creative, you tend to resort back to the “easy,” reliable positions. This is when routine and eventual boredom can start to take over your relationship — fun in the bedroom might be the only way to salvage this rut. Try giving the regular routine a facelift with these new positions.

1- The hitch

Description: You are on all fours facing away from your woman, while she lies on her back with her legs in the air.

Benefits for you: The best part of this position is that you have total control of how fast, how slow and how rough it goes. Also, because she gets easy access to your backside, anal stimulation is an easy move to throw into the mix, if you’d like.

Benefits for her: This position mostly looks out for her best interest. She can maximize stimulation of the vaginal walls by constricting the muscles in her vagina, or by opening and closing her thighs. It also facilitates the rubbing of your penis against her clitoris and, as if that weren’t enough, she gets to lay back and enjoy the view!

2- The reverse frog squat

Description: Lie on your back with your legs parted, while she leans back with her legs bent close to her body.

Benefits for you: This position lets you lay back and relax. Try it after a stressful day at the office or a strenuous workout that makes you way too lazy for lovemaking.

Benefits for her: Not only is she in complete control in this position, but the angle of penetration can be incredibly arousing for her. Equally arousing may be the feeling of the man’s hands caressing her back and sides — a move made simple by this position.

3- The Boston brute

Description: Your girl lies on her back with her legs extended in the air. With your back facing her, sit on her thighs, and he carefully bends your penis down toward her vagina.

Benefits for you: Since positioning the erect penis downward isn’t something many men can do, you get the sweet satisfaction of knowing you have an extraordinarily bendable penis. Once you get over that ego-trip, you can enjoy a relaxing lower-back massage during sex.

Benefits for her: The angle of penetration can be stimulating for her, and she also might like the fact that you have the freedom to caress her thighs.

4- The merry mandolin

Description: While she lies on her side, bending both knees to her chest, you position yourself behind her, extending one leg behind her back and the other between her legs.

Benefits for you: The thrusts are shallow, but it allows you a great amount of control. So, go fast, go slow, go crazy! You’ll probably also really enjoy the new angle of penetration.

Benefits for her: She’ll love the fact that you can reach over and manually stimulate her clitoris at the same.

up for the challenge

When you’re both in the mood for something really out of the ordinary, you may want to give these positions a try. They may call for some acrobatic, contortionist moves, but they’re sure to raise the element of fun during sex.

5- Othello’s back groove

Description: Balance yourself on a chair, with your feet at the corner of the base and your arms holding onto the back. Get her to approach the front of the chair and lean forward with her hands on her knees.

Benefits for you: While your position might be a little uncomfortable, you do have complete control of the movement and you get a great visual of the action, which is also very arousing.

Benefits for her: As with all the other rear-entry positions, the angle of penetration may be stimulating for her. Also, if you’ve got the whole balance thing down and you’re feeling brave enough to hold on with one hand, she might enjoy some anal stimulation, if she’s into that sort of thing.

What you need to pull this off: Strong arms and legs and great balance. This move reminds me a little of the trust game, where you fall back and pray that the person behind you has high enough moral standards not to let you plummet to the ground. Similarly, she really needs to trust your level of strength because if your arms or legs give out, not only can you hurt yourself, but the “ouch” factor is severely elevated for her.

Take flight, defy gravity.

6- Superhero’s delight

Description: While she grabs the sides of a high stool, you place your hands under her waist and lift her off the ground. She, then, wraps her legs around your waist for extra support.

Benefits for you: Once again, you get complete control of movement, as well as a great view of her backside.

Benefits for her: She lucks out again with the arousing angle of penetration.

What you need to pull this off: Make sure she’s light enough to hold into the air, or make sure you’re strong enough to support her (whatever her weight may be). We wouldn’t want any accidental droppings — this is supposed to be fun, remember?

7- Zero gravity

Description: She lies with her shoulders on the chair and her head leaning off the side. You stand upright, supporting her hips with your hands, as her legs are extended onto your shoulders.

Benefits for you: You’re the dominant one in this position, so control the movements as you see fit. Also, because her legs are closed, this might make penetration feel a little more snug than usual.

Benefits for her: If you can support her properly with one arm, she’ll love the fact that you can massage her clitoris at the same time.

What you need to pull this off: Make sure she’s not easily nauseated. The bobbing upside-down view can start to make her feel uncomfortable.

Source for further reading

Strovny, David, AskMen.com Nov.12, 2009

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov. 12, 2009

Sex should be sweaty, steamy and sticky. It should have elements of passion and intensity. It should be a moment of untamed frenzy coupled with unbridled excitement and intimacy…

Sound like a familiar fantasy? While sex is great when it turns into the kind of unbridled passion usually reserved for movies and daytime soap operas, it’s not always realistic, nor is it always possible, to achieve. There is, however, one element that’s a little more feasible to bring into your lovemaking — fun.

I’m not just talking about a role-playing, ear-nibbling, dirty-talking, laugh-out-loud role in the hay — I’m talking about the kind of sex that gives you a feeling of intimacy with just the right touch of playfulness. Exactly how is this achieved, you ask? The answer is all in the positioning, my friend.

Here are a few sex positions that’ll help you incorporate the fun factor into your sex life.  For more tips and love guides we have exciting books for you like  Lover’s Weekender Guide, The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys and Tickle His Pickle.

Moreover, we also have fun and sexy  lingeries,  dress up costumes, sex toys like Lelo Gigi and accessories like Strip Tease Delux Kit that comes with iamante nipple pasties, satin garter, feather boa, Burlesque CD and bills of desire which your loved one can use when he likes what he sees.

revamping the regulars

When fatigue sets in or you’re just not feeling that creative, you tend to resort back to the “easy,” reliable positions. This is when routine and eventual boredom can start to take over your relationship — fun in the bedroom might be the only way to salvage this rut. Try giving the regular routine a facelift with these new positions.

1- The hitch

Description: You are on all fours facing away from your woman, while she lies on her back with her legs in the air.

Benefits for you: The best part of this position is that you have total control of how fast, how slow and how rough it goes. Also, because she gets easy access to your backside, anal stimulation is an easy move to throw into the mix, if you’d like.

Benefits for her: This position mostly looks out for her best interest. She can maximize stimulation of the vaginal walls by constricting the muscles in her vagina, or by opening and closing her thighs. It also facilitates the rubbing of your penis against her clitoris and, as if that weren’t enough, she gets to lay back and enjoy the view!

2- The reverse frog squat

Description: Lie on your back with your legs parted, while she leans back with her legs bent close to her body.

Benefits for you: This position lets you lay back and relax. Try it after a stressful day at the office or a strenuous workout that makes you way too lazy for lovemaking.

Benefits for her: Not only is she in complete control in this position, but the angle of penetration can be incredibly arousing for her. Equally arousing may be the feeling of the man’s hands caressing her back and sides — a move made simple by this position.

3- The Boston brute

Description: Your girl lies on her back with her legs extended in the air. With your back facing her, sit on her thighs, and he carefully bends your penis down toward her vagina.

Benefits for you: Since positioning the erect penis downward isn’t something many men can do, you get the sweet satisfaction of knowing you have an extraordinarily bendable penis. Once you get over that ego-trip, you can enjoy a relaxing lower-back massage during sex.

Benefits for her: The angle of penetration can be stimulating for her, and she also might like the fact that you have the freedom to caress her thighs.

4- The merry mandolin

Description: While she lies on her side, bending both knees to her chest, you position yourself behind her, extending one leg behind her back and the other between her legs.

Benefits for you: The thrusts are shallow, but it allows you a great amount of control. So, go fast, go slow, go crazy! You’ll probably also really enjoy the new angle of penetration.

Benefits for her: She’ll love the fact that you can reach over and manually stimulate her clitoris at the same.

up for the challenge

When you’re both in the mood for something really out of the ordinary, you may want to give these positions a try. They may call for some acrobatic, contortionist moves, but they’re sure to raise the element of fun during sex.

5- Othello’s back groove

Description: Balance yourself on a chair, with your feet at the corner of the base and your arms holding onto the back. Get her to approach the front of the chair and lean forward with her hands on her knees.

Benefits for you: While your position might be a little uncomfortable, you do have complete control of the movement and you get a great visual of the action, which is also very arousing.

Benefits for her: As with all the other rear-entry positions, the angle of penetration may be stimulating for her. Also, if you’ve got the whole balance thing down and you’re feeling brave enough to hold on with one hand, she might enjoy some anal stimulation, if she’s into that sort of thing.

What you need to pull this off: Strong arms and legs and great balance. This move reminds me a little of the trust game, where you fall back and pray that the person behind you has high enough moral standards not to let you plummet to the ground. Similarly, she really needs to trust your level of strength because if your arms or legs give out, not only can you hurt yourself, but the “ouch” factor is severely elevated for her.

Take flight, defy gravity.

6- Superhero’s delight

Description: While she grabs the sides of a high stool, you place your hands under her waist and lift her off the ground. She, then, wraps her legs around your waist for extra support.

Benefits for you: Once again, you get complete control of movement, as well as a great view of her backside.

Benefits for her: She lucks out again with the arousing angle of penetration.

What you need to pull this off: Make sure she’s light enough to hold into the air, or make sure you’re strong enough to support her (whatever her weight may be). We wouldn’t want any accidental droppings — this is supposed to be fun, remember?

7- Zero gravity

Description: She lies with her shoulders on the chair and her head leaning off the side. You stand upright, supporting her hips with your hands, as her legs are extended onto your shoulders.

Benefits for you: You’re the dominant one in this position, so control the movements as you see fit. Also, because her legs are closed, this might make penetration feel a little more snug than usual.

Benefits for her: If you can support her properly with one arm, she’ll love the fact that you can massage her clitoris at the same time.

What you need to pull this off: Make sure she’s not easily nauseated. The bobbing upside-down view can start to make her feel uncomfortable.

Source for further reading

Strovny, David, AskMen.com Nov.12, 2009

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov. 12, 2009

I need a workout partner, any girls want to volunteer?

With this advice, phone sex can be the best sex of your life.

Step 1: Jot down some notes

If you’re not used to talking dirty, jot down some notes so you’ll never be at a loss for words.

Step 2: Calm yourself

Spend a few minutes taking deep breaths before dialing so you’ll sound relaxed and confident.

Step 3: Describe yourself

If you’re wooing a man, paint an alluring picture of what you’re wearing or not wearing, even if the truth is you’re in sweatpants, because guys respond to visual imagery. If you’re dirty dialing a woman, emphasize how much you are craving her body and what precisely you’d like to be doing to her at that very moment.

Step 4: Become graphic

Become progressively graphic, ending by using the crudest words for body parts that you can think of. Say things you’d be too shy to utter face to face.

Step 5: Be specific

Be as specific as you can. Don’t say, “I’m so hot for you.” Describe the physical manifestations of your lust.

Step 6: Make it personal

Refer to your partner’s unique physical attributes and erotic preferences so the dirty talk doesn’t sound generic.

Step 7: Make it mutual

Listen to your partner and adapt your talk to theirs. It should be a mutual conversation, not two separate monologues.

Step 8: Get off … the phone

After you’ve both (hopefully) climaxed, end the call. The postcoital glow of phone sex is best enjoyed alone.

Step 9: Get physical

Add sound effects. Let the person hear what you are doing to your body in response to their suggestions and commands. Keep up the grunts, moans and groans.   Moreover, you can also try our Kama Sutra Weekender Kit for intense lust and excitement.
You don’t want the person on the other end to wonder if they’re panting into a dropped call.

Tribbing just about one of my all time favourite things.

The sex toy industry is getting more hi-tech as strong performance during the slump funds more R&D.

See the newest sex toy for your iphone and ipod:

OhMiBod -Personal Massager for iPod

So, what is the OhMiBod & what does it do?

“Everyone loves music. Everyone loves sex. OhMiBod combines music and pleasure to create the ultimate accessory™ to your iPod.”

I can’t tell you exactly how it works — not geeky enough, I’m afraid. What I can tell you is that it interprets the sounds emanating from your MP3 player & translates them into vibrations. While it sounds kind of gimmicky & silly, it soon becomes addictive & the perfection of the pairing becomes startlingly obvious.

The OhMiBod isn’t a very attractive looking object — it looks more like the end of an elf’s pointy pink shoe than anything you might want near your underpants. But I promise you, once you attach this unusual gizmo to your iPod, stereo or even laptop, you will forgive it its cosmetic misgivings.

I love my OhMiBod. A lot. It’s the ultimate toy for the aurally-fixated. I am definitely one of those people. I live, eat & breathe music, I am always listening to something new, & I am often overcome with the feeling of wanting to crawl inside my favorite songs. So conjuring up a way for a song to give me an orgasm makes me very, very happy.

You can buy an additional accessory to the OhMiBod, a “life-like” neon pink jelly skin which slides over the top… Though one might be moved to ask, “What exactly is it about a neon pink faux-phallus that is ‘life-like’?” It’s an interesting addition, & great for when you want to get a little bit more intimate with your OhMiBod. But of course it does dilute the strength of the pulsations, so if strong direct vibrations are important to you, it will probably just get in your way.

So, of course, now we get down to the crux of it. What makes a good OhMiBod song? Initially I thought it would just be something with a lot of bass, but it was not to be! Really what it’s all about — for me, anyway, ahem — is a strong, steady rhythm. Experiment at your leisure pleasure!

Cool Features:

One of the coolest things about the OhMiBod is that a community has sprung up around it. It’s called Club Vibe, & it’s a place where people share playlists & guest DJs submit their favourite tracks! Continual new music for your perusal! Such a good idea.

Trust me when I say that if you buy one, you will never think about music the same way again…

Madame Rouge is selling the delightful OhMiBod for $110AU. Even better, there’s free, next-day metro delivery for Australian buyers if you quote “iCiNG” when you check out! Please do believe me when I say they’re a lot of fun!

What do you think about the pairing of music & sex? For me, it’s almost impossible to have one without the other. Do you own any toys at all? What do you like? & more importantly, how likely would you be to bliss out to the dulcet tones of your favorite band?!

Extra For Experts:
An interview with Suki of OhMiBod — if you want to know more about the founder of the company, this is worth a read!

Another product is OhMiBod

Have you ever felt a little er, "empty handed" when your lover calls? Our new Boditalk vibe is just what your body needs...to follow where your mind is already wandering. Its velvety finish and sleek design make it the ultimate cell phone accessory™. Boditalk™ is activated by calls made to or from your cell phone when in close range. The cell signal triggers a unique 3 pattern vibrating sequence that lasts for the entire call - enabling you to "get off while you're on". For use without a cellphone, the vibe has 7 stimulation patterns to experiment with and enjoy.

Boditalk™ is molded from premium grade hypoallergenic non-toxic non-porous ABS plastic and measures 6 7/8" long (5 1/2" insertable) and 1" in diameter.

This vibe brings phone sex to a whole new level. Whether you are across town or around the world, Boditalk™ makes those long (or close) distance relationships a lot more fun and exciting.

Requires 2 AA batteries (not included). Works with all cell phones including Apple's new iPhone™.

Source for further reading
Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov. 10, 2009
SMH Australia Sex Toys get Iphone Makeover Nov. 10, 2009
BodiTalk Nov. 10, 2009

Have more fun in bed with these proven strategies for improving sex.

Step 1: Get some exercise

Get moving. Exercise activates the sympathetic nervous system, encouraging blood flow to the genital region. One study found that women were more sexually responsive following 20 minutes of vigorous exercise.

Step 2: Take a deep breath

Take a lot of slow, deep breaths when you’re on the verge of orgasm. You’ll climax more intensely by increasing blood flow to your genitals. You can also try our newest Gigi Vibrator for intense orgasm.

Step 3: Tug each other’s hair

Tug each other’s hair in the home stretch. It releases endorphins, which in turn intensify orgasm.

Step 4: Have a love connection

Be in love. Studies indicate that couples who have a strong emotional connection have more satisfying sex.

Step 5: Make it legal

Get married. Surveys show married people have better sex than singles do.  You can also try our sexy lingerie and dress up costumes during your honeymoon to make your lovemaking more exciting.

Step 6: Sleep with a feminist

Hook up with a feminist. Research shows that men with a feminist partner and women with a male who identifies himself as a feminist have healthier relationships and better sex lives. Let’s hear it for equality!

You burn up to 200 calories after 30 minutes of sex.

Source for further reading:

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia NOv.9, 2009

Howcast How to have Better Sex Life Nov. 9, 2009